Government Shutdown Ping Pong

Being a government employee comes with plenty of stereotypes—job security, decent benefits, stable pay. But if you’ve ever actually worked for the federal government, you know that “stability” is a fragile illusion (this year more than ever). Nothing makes that clearer than a government shutdown, which always seems to be looming over our heads. On

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Home Leave Musings

Last month, I got to return to the U.S. for Home Leave, a congressionally mandated form of leave diplomats get at the end of assignments, or after serving a year in many danger posts. It’s meant to allow diplomats to kiss the soil of the motherland and reacclimate to their own country after being away

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Potty Talk 2.0

Let’s circle back to something I wrote about a few year ago that everyone does but no one really likes to talk about: using the bathroom. Specifically, what happens after. For most Americans, that means reaching for the trusty roll of toilet paper. But here’s the thing—why are we still doing this when there’s a

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Farewell USAID

Last month the United States Agency of International Development (USAID) ceased to exist as part of the restructuring of the U.S. Government, and the remnants were folded into the Department of State. For those that don’t know, USAID makes up a large presence at overseas embassies, particularly in the developing world, so their departure has

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Japan

One of the benefits provided to employees of the Foreign Service serving in unaccompanied posts, is the department will pay for your kids to meet you in another country, called family reunification travel. After a lot of discussing with Angeli and our eldest daughter, we came to the conclusion that we wanted to meet up

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Divorce

This has been a post I have been contemplating writing for some time, but didn’t really know how to address it, or even if I should. Last year, Angeli and I separated and divorced. As the dust has settled a bit, I felt it was time to address it as several people have reached out

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4 Years Old?

Apologies for the delay in posting this. My site host went down last weekend and apparently never posted anything that was scheduled over the weekend. July marks 4 years since I started writing this blog, which is sort of surreal to think about. 4 years ago I was working as a hospitalist in Southern New

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EER Season Part 3

Another year, another period of the Employee Evaluation Report season has come to a close. For those of you that have been around a bit, or know the State Department system, each year, employees have to submit a review of their own performance, which their boss then also adds to, then you submit into your

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Papa

One of the hardest things about being in the Foreign Service is not being with your family on a routine basis. This is especially difficult when a loved one passes and you aren’t there to say goodbye. During my first tour in Nouakchott, my grandmother passed away after a long bout with dementia, and although

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